Friday, April 27, 2012

Is Fear of Failure Keeping You Outdated?

Why so many people  refuse to change their Styles? Fear of Failure!

To Feel Fear and to live in fear is two different thing!
Everyone feels fear. Fear does not discriminates.
No one is invulnerable or immune to it!

So go ahead and renew your wardrobe 
We can let it run our lives or we can counterattack it! The choice is ours.
The feeling of Fear is not the problem, the problem is what we do with it.
We can either allow it to paralyze our dreams, or we can use it as a combustive, transforming it into an agitation of anger and revolt!
An agitation of anger + revolt = Courage!
Courage is Comprised by-fear-anger-and revolt.

I think, Courage is an act of Fear in disguise. If there were no fear there would be no courage. Every courageous person I've met or read about, tells you:
"I was afraid but I did it anyways"!

To me Fear is what boosts courage. You feel fearful - you get angry- you get revolted with that situation, and then out of no where, here comes "Courage".
That's when you determine within yourself to ignore that negative voice and go for it with no concerns of the outcome. Just close your eyes and your ears and act your faith right in the "Face of Fear"! I've realize in my life that "Courage" only shows-up when we cast that Fear of what he/she/they think of us. If we live our lives depending on everybody's approval or rejections, we'll be a slave of Fear for life!

So ahead and get that hair cut or
color you've been dying to, but was
afraid! 
For eg: many people are afraid to change their Styles
They've had it for so long and now they're afraid what's the new one gonna look like
excuses: I'm use to it, its easy to shop, this is who I am etc...

So they stick to that boring outdated hair style and those old fashion clothes
Why? Because, they're afraid of taking chances, afraid of failure, afraid of what people will say or think. Why Fear? If you get a new hair cut and it does not come out the way you like like, its only hair, it'll grow out again! If you get a new color and don't like it,  dye it again into a different color!

If you try on a new color lipstick and you don't like it, what's the worse that can happen? Wipe it off and try a different one! Why stick to that same old color day-in-day-out?

If you go to the Stores and try on some new updated Fashionable clothes and didn't like it, what's the worst that can happen? Take it off and keep on trying them until you find what you like. Its that simple! If you're not sure of what you like bring a trustful friend with you who can tell you the truth.

What's there to Fear? You'll never know how your new hair cut or color will look on you unless you try it! You'll never know how your new updated Style clothes will look on you unless you try them on. Right?

Fear is nothing but an imagination of our mind.
  
Imagination:The formation of a mental image of something that is neither perceived as real nor present to the senses.
Read more: http://www.answers.com/topic/imagination#ixzz1tGSrU800

"Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ". 2 Corinthians 10:5 

         

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