How To Dress Classy "N" Stylish In Your 30s

                       Once we reach our 30s, everything changes.

Our body and state of mind is not the same anymore.
But are you allowing the tumult of your 30s affecting your fashion sense?
Well if it is than please read along, it'll probably help you.

Many women gets lost in their 30s with their sense of style because they don't want to look like a teenager, and don't want to look like a grandma either. That's were all the confusion comes from. So instead they just throw their jeans, sweat pants and T-shirts on and they're out the door. Some women in the pursuit of looking young and attractive are just walking around in their Birthday suit. No woman wants to look old and unattractive, it's in our gens, but there's a huge difference between looking young and stylish and looking foolish and trashy.

We're more mature in our 30s, our state of mind is not the same.
We have far more things going on for us than we did in our 20s.
In our 20s, our mind still worked as if we're still a teenager, everything was fun, fun, and more fun. With our body nice and tight, everything in its proper place, if you know what I mean - : )  with a minor effort any and everything looked good.  Now that gravity is taking affect, and slow metabolism is taking it's toll, clothes don't fit beautifully as they once did. Or maybe you had a baby and packed-up few pounds and your beautiful curves are not the same. Been there.... - : )))

Not to mention, that in your 30s you have much more important responsibilities to worry about than  fashion. You probably have husband and children to care for, thinking about taking your career a bit more seriously, trying to finish your degree or pay off your student loans, and so on and so forth.


 Do You Want Reason To Look Good
  You should look good for your self first, your husband will be proud of you in front of his friends,  your children will be proud of you when you come to pick them up at school, you want your boss to be happy that he can count on you, that you're on his team looking good and professional ready to work etc, etc.

Classy Looks Are Forever
When you're in your 20s everything is trendy, what's hot at the moment, once you reach your 30s, it doesn't mean you have to look like a grandma, but you shouldn't look scrubby or walk around in your birthday suit either. All you need  to do is focus more on classy investment pieces.When you out shopping always remember that Classy looks are for ever.

What are investment pieces?
Investment pieces means- quality over quantity. Pieces that never goes out of style.
That means instead of walking out of the store with two or three cheap dress- pick ONE with a higher price tag, (as high as you can afford of course) that has a better fit and fabric that won't wear off after couple wash or be outdated for a long time. Classic pieces are more expensive but you'll get your money's worth because you'll get much more miles out of them.

Someone sent me an email asking me for ideas on how to dress on her 30s
So, I'm gone give you lists of clothes that I think every women in her 30s should have in their closets.

Must have Dresses that will make you look classy and sassy in your 30s 
All you need is some carefree classic pieces that will make you look stylish without breaking the bank or sacrificing much of your time. Classic pieces never goes out of style so you don't have to be buying clothes all the time. Just because you're in your 30s doesn't mean you cannot dress fun and flirty, just add a touch of classiness to it.

#1- Must Have
Wrap and Shift Dresses are # 1 outfit that every women in her 30s should have in her wardrobe
These dresses are pretty and elegant that can take you from running after your children, to work, to a night out with your friends or hubby with class.

A Wrap Dress (the only dress for every shape)
#1 dress that every woman should have in their closet
It's a classy and suitable dress for every women's shape and age
It can go from day to night with just a little touch.
It's a forgiven friendly dress that allows you to hide few pounds without anyone noticing
Its comfortable,  and time saver because it's wrinkle free fabric so you don't have to be ironing, is not only perfect for traveling, but accentuates your curve perfectly no matter what your size is. The most girly dress ever for every women, no matter your size or age. It's a feminine dress.

For your first ones try to get it in neutral colors such as: black, navy blue, gray or brown. You can get much more miles out of them. Bright color are beautiful but they're limited. For example you can wear a black dress two days in a row with a different pair of shoes and jewelry, and people will never notice. Not so with a bright color dress, the moment you walk in the room everyone will know you're wearing the same dress.


The Shift Dress

                                        

I think the appropriate length of your dress/skirt should be knee length, if its shorter use a black stocking like this grey one.

Comfortable and chick.
There's nothing more uncomfortable and more unattractive that ill fitting clothes.
You can wear them with a pair of sandals/wedges or with stoking and ballet flats, or a nice pair of heels.

To be continued.........

"Those who honor me I will honor, but those who despise me will be disdained". Samuel 2:30

I think a woman should be modern, stylish and sassy, but I don't think it should be the core of our life. Yes, it should be a fun and joyous moment between you - yourself and your personality, but not 'the' most important thing in life. I believe that our main worries in life should be on how to honor our Lord, because when we do honor Him he will take care all the rest.