Is It A Fashion Mistakes or A Defense Mechanism

Ohhhhhhhh!!!
What should I do?

Am I living under a simple fashion mistake, a denial or a defense mechanism? 
Should I fix my fashion mistakes, get out of my denial, or should I go into a defense mechanism? Now that's the million dollar question?

Who doesn't like to look good? 
Every human being caries a desire to look good, it's in our genes. 
You should never rely on Media, Magazines or TV shows about fashion produce to rule your lifestyle or wardrobe. Remember those clothes are for models whose jobs are to starve themselves to death in order to be a size "0", and not to mention how extremely overpriced they are!

First impression is based on your appearance! Not your Talent! We have to admit, in today's society ~ clothes does matter. So be smart and make the right choices, so people can judge you for whom you really are. There's no shame in making a fashion mistake. We've all done it, even the celebrities have been know to do it. It's just a bad judgement of the moment, nothing else! So, you just learn from it and move on to a better choice.
  

What's Fashion Mistake:

➩ following the crowd 
➩depending on other people's opinions
➩buying what ever you find just because it's on Sale

➩being slaves to what media and magazine fashion dictates
➩slaves of so called, high fashion, anti-fashion, counter-culture fashion, suburban mom fashion, etc   
➩always stretching your money to buy as many pieces as you can, you'll have lots of  clothes but nothing good to wear

Showing too much skin 

I like Toni Braxton but showing too much skin is neither pretty nor sexy!!!
Just because celebrities does it - it doesn't make it right.  Sorry, but it makes you look cheap and easy...

Muffin Tops


They are not attractive at all!
If you like low-rise jeans make sure it fits properly. Whenever you have these "love handles" bulging out, it means your jeans are too tight. Go a size over, believe or not, you'll look much better. It's not sexy, it makes your legs look shorter and your waist chunkier. I don't think any woman likes that. To me that's a fashion mistake, because it's hurting your beautiful feminine physique.  

Being stuck In The Past

Lets face it, we all had a specific period in our lives that we loved our bodies, the size we wore, or the trend of the moment. But we have to acknowledge that everything in life changes. Fashion as well as our bodies. We cannot be stuck in the past. We need to readjust our tastes and styles, by experimenting few shapes and cuts. If you stay stuck in the past it will definitely hold you back from new experiences and looking your best.

Ill Fitting Clothes:

Too big or too small, they are  both unattractive. 
They both make you look bad.
Don't hide you beautiful shape on the extra folds of your clothes, and don't try to squeeze yourself into something that don't fit you - it makes you look like a sausage!
The purpose of your clothes are to flatter you- by showing your beautiful feminine curves.

Over Accessorize

Believe or not, there is something as too much!
I absolutely love statement pieces, they bring life to any outfit. 
You can wear a simple jeans and T-shirt, by simply adding some statement jewelry pieces, you're stylish. Over-doing it, however, is neither stylish nor sexy. It's a mess. 
It's definitely a fashion mistake!

Proper underwear

 

To me panty-lines are the most annoying fashion mistakes!
 An ill fitting underware can ruin your entire outfit, and not to mention how unattractive and unpleasant it is. Nobody want to see your G-string or the color of your underware! That's why it's called underware. It's suppose to be under!

What's Defense Mechanism:
Defense mechanism is a shield we put up to protect ourselves from things that we don't want to talk about or deal with. It's either we know its wrong, but we're too proud to admit it - or we think its too hard and bothersome, so we prefer not to deal with it.  So we shift into a defense mechanism such as:
   
➩to think that just your natural beauty is enough
➩to think that just your performance at work is enough
➩ to think that fashion is lame, overrated, unnecessary and just a waste of money
➩ to allow the concept of fashion to rob you of it's enjoyment or overwhelm you to the point of doing nothing to better  yourself 
➩to go into a Defense Mechanism because you don't know what to do with fashion
➩acting like everyone is jealous of you,  that everyone is wrong except you, etc, etc, etc...

"The heart is deceitful about all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?" Jeremiah 17:9