How To Pick 'The' Perfect Pants For Your Shape

Continuing...
 With the best clothes you should have in your wardrobe in your 30s 
The best way to look good is to know what type of body shape you have. Once you discover that, the rest is easy.

What's Your Shape

Do You Know How To Chose A Perfect Pair Of Dress Pants For Your Shape?
A black pair of dress pants and a white crispy blouse is a-must-have
There's no secret and you don't have to be a fashionista or a mastermind to know that a Black Dressy pants is a must-have in every women's closet. They are elegant and flattering on every women no matter your age.A black pair of dress pants is a must have because it's easy to style and it can take you almost anywhere. It goes with everything especially a white crispy blouse.


I'm gonna list 'The' best pants for your body-shape, so try to get the one that suits you best.



The forever Classic 
Never out-of-style black trouser and a white crispy blouse. 







The-Best-All-Around-Black-Pants  ~ Boot Cut Style
This style is the only pant style that looks good on every shape.
If you want a hassle - free style, then get this one.
This is the magical, a one fit all pants kind-of-pants.

Boot cut with lower waist wide belt loops style is feminine enough to flatter every age and shape women.
The lower waist is perfect to show off your curves with a beautiful belt, and the boot cut leg is perfect to balance your hips and thigh.

If you're a petite woman than avoid low-waist because they tend to make you look shorter.





Now lets talk about the Styles that fits your body the best, because there's nothing uglier and more unfeminine than an ill fitting pair of pants. 

#1- Slender Shape

Slender body-shape is a very slim person with very few curve.
The Boyish style with cuffs are perfect for your slim body type because it nice and fitted. Avoid pants that are too loose, the extra fabric will make your small figure look like a cat in the bag. Any style looks great on you, just avoid baggy pants with too much fabrics.

Boyish cut style with cuffs,perfect for your figure

 If you have a Straight Boyish Body - try the wide drop waist with wide belt loops

#2- Athletic Shape
The brick hard muscular athletic body shape is the least common amongst woman. It's also called 'Boyish', because of its muscularity appearance. It's straight up and down, no waist line and a broad shoulder. This shape can look very unfeminine so you have to avoid masculine (boyish) looking pants. Look for feminine details on your pants to soften-up your curves.      

Flat front with flare, very pretty and feminine. Perfect for an athletic shape-shape woman. Low-rise also looks great on you.   

#3- Hourglass Shape
A very curvy figure. 
It's an X shape woman, the hips and bust are almost of equal size with a narrow waist. High Waisted are so in, they're everywhere and they look great on you. 

I absolutely love them!

High waisted and curvy style are the best fit for you

These pants accentuates your every curves making you look amazing. It also gives you an illusion of hight by elongating your torso and a greater leg length. Who's the women that don't want to have a longer beautiful legs. High waist pants are so feminine and stylish. It really gives you an amazing look and a perfect fit. I love the wide legs style, I think the fitted ones are too revealing, they shape your body too much, leaving nothing for an imagination.  
If you're a petite woman, it's perfect for you, because it creates an illusion of hight.

#4-Pear Shape
You are an A-shape woman with a larger hips and thighs and a smaller shoulder and bust. Boot cut is your friend, because it helps to balance out your shoulder.
Avoid tapered leg cuts, because it makes you look much wider.

#5-Apple- Shape
You are a V-shape woman.
Your chest and abdomen is much larger than your hips. If you have a belly or want to look slimmer - try a low rise cut with a wide waistband, flat front and wide or flare legs. It magically makes your belly disappear and makes you look
slimmer.                                                                                                            

 Wide or flare legs are perfect for you

Try to get those pants with extra wide waistband.They magically makes your tummy disappear.

For a Plus size woman
 If you're a plus size try the straight and narrow cut ones, but not skinny. Skinny will make you look bigger.

Flat front wide legs are perfect
for you.

Straight or Narrow leg are very
slimming for you.

"To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams. For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and arrogance like the evil of idolatry". 1 Samuel 15:22-23

Mothers tend to have a blind side when it comes to their children. In our mind they can do no wrong.   But there's one thing we all mothers agrees on, there's not a mother in the world that likes a rebellion and arrogant child. No one likes being around a rebellion and arrogant person. No matter how beautiful the person is if they are rebellion and arrogant - they have a repellant character that just pushes you away. No one hates it more than God! God hates a rebellion and arrogant person so much, that he considers it as bad as a sin of divination and idolatry. And if you read the Bible you can understand how much God hates these two sins. 

How To Dress In Your 30s Part 2

                                How to look good in your 30s guiltless

All you need is a little plan and a small budget to look good.
Looking good doesn't have to cost you an arm and a leg.

Me-Time
I take it from my sister-in-law, I'm always picking at her because she's a beautiful woman but always walks around in shabby clothes. You know why? She claims that she feels so guilty spending money on herself when she can pay a bill or put food on the table for her children with that money. I understand her, but we need to live as well. You don't need to spend tons of money to look good. You shouldn't have to sacrifice your bills or your children's food's money in the sake of fashion, but you shouldn't ignore yourself either. All you need to do is balance it out. A little plan can go a long ways. You should look at it as self-reward for all the hard work you do for them. : - ) A distressing moment just for you; a- me- time! We all need a-me-time. Trust me, you'll look and feel much better about yourself, and your hubby and your children will love it as well.

3 Steps on How to save few bucks for your wardrobe:
Here are some ideas on things you can do so you can save few extra dollars to spend on you without sacrificing your obligations, or feeling guilty. These are the things I use to do when my children were living with me to save money. And still do.

1- Cut eating out: 
I use to cook everyday. Only some Saturdays when I had money I would take them to movies and spent money with outside food and some junk food for the movie. That would save me tons of money because eating out and junk food can really drain your money. The Saturdays I couldn't take them out, I would cook and bake something fun and special for each one of us, and rent some movies and make it our family fun day. I made it so special that they didn't miss the eating out, they were healthy and fit, and I saved money so I could look beautiful without sacrificing my obligations :-)) you see! Think with here, if you just buy one cup of coffee at day in the end of the month that's about $60-$70 you could-off bought yourself something pretty. Now imagine if you buy a cup of coffee and a lunch everyday! I'm not saying you should never eat out, I'm just saying- that there's a way out to look beautiful no matter your budget without having to sacrifice your obligations.

2- Stop buying every beauty products you see out there:
Not all of them works, you know. Before buying any beauty products check the Consumer Report.com to see the product review if it really works, or finish the ones you already have before spending money on the next one. Finish your facial cream, your shampoos, your deodorant, your hair products etc, before trying the next one. This simple act can save you a lot of money. Try it and you'll see. That's what I do. The only things I have multiples are perfumes and lipsticks.

3- Stop buying every cleaning product you see out there as well:
Buy one product, use them until is all done before buying the next one.

I have seen some people's house, their bathroom and cleaning shelf supplies looks like a SupperMarket.They buy so many that they don't even have time to get to them before they get spoiled. That's money down the drain, that could by you some really nice things.

#2 Must Have in every women's wardrobe

By saving money the wise way you will be able to shop these second must have pieces in your closet:




Trench Coat
A trench coat is a must in every women's closet because it's stylish, never out of style and it  can take you anywhere.

You can wear it with a dress, dress pants or jeans and still look good.




The best one to buy is a neutral color such as black or khaki because it goes with everything.




Black Blazer
A black blazer is a must have. It's elegant with anything, from dress to dress pants and skinny jeans to your blue jeans.

Try to get one with a one button and pretty pocket details like this one. It's very feminine and it really accentuates your waist. If you're an hourglass it  showcases it, if you're not it creates an illusion of an hourglass for you.







                                                                                 Denim Jacket 

A denim jacket is a must have because it's a nice casual look. It looks great all year around, from your summer dress and sandals to your jeans, to your skirts and boots in the winter. Yeap I love it! I wear mine all year around.

You'll always look casual classy as soon as you pair this jacket with your jeans and a simple t-shirt.

"The Lord rewards every man for his righteousness and faithfulness".
1 Samuel 26:23

Just because you don't see the answer you want when you want it - doesn't mean God is not hearing you. If you can just worry on doing your part, at the right time he will bring it on! Trust me! The problem is sometimes we focus so much on what God is not doing in our life that we forget to see what He is doing. When we focus on God's part we forget to do out part.