Is Your Hair Driving You Crazy?

Seriously, how much is your hair driving you CRAZY?
Enough to do something about it?
Please read along, 12 steps for your dream hair *

1  -Who says Black Girl's Hair don't grow? Seriously who?
Are your dry frizzy ends driving you crazy?

Do you hold on to those frayed ends just because you don't want to loose the length? Well, sadly to say, but if you keep on holding to those dead ends you'll never  fix your problem. Yeah, maybe you don't trust hairdressers because you think they'll cut too much of your hair, but you shouldn't cut it yourself either, besides if you do it regularly there's no reason to cut too much.   If you want to know how to have beautiful and healthy hair just keep on reading. Look how long, beautiful and healthy this black lady's hair look! It's all her own natural hair - no weave!

 2   -Does your bathroom shelf look like this one here?

       Do you buy every product you see on the market?Do you think your hair has a mind of its own? Is it dry and frizzy for no reason? Is it unreasoned or untamed? Do you think it could be chemically over-processed? Did you ever think that maybe is the product you're using? Or could it be that you simply need a 1/2 inch trim?

 3   -Do you hate getting a trim?
I know women that walks around with some dry frayed frizzy dead ends and refuses to trim their hair because they don't want to loose the length. What's more important, having a healthy shorter length hair or a long frizzy stringy unhealthy looking hair? Not to mention that it'll break off anyways. Once you have a nice soft layer cut you wont need to load up on styling products. All you'll need is a lightweight alcohol free mousse and a drop of silicone serum to add shine. And Voila'.

 4   - Is your hair difficult to manage?
It's not your hair that's difficult it's what you're doing to it that's making it difficult. That's the only way your hair can talk to you. It's trying to tell you enough with all this starchy products, and all these blowdrying and flat irons already! And can we get a trim please? God knows we can use one! - : )

 5   - Are you using more than one product to style your hair?
If you're using more than one product to tame your hair or making it smooth or fuller, the chance is your hair is damaged. All these mousse and gel and hairspray you're using may work for few hours, but it's actually murdering your hair silently. It's robbing your hair of it's shine and natural texture, leaving you with a steel-wool brittle hair.

6   -If you follow these few steps I guarantee you will have beautiful healthy hair in no time!

Ultra Black Hair Products

Cream of Nature and Ultra Black Hair products are really
 good because they are organic, no harsh drying chemicals.
No sulfates; meaning very hydrating and nourishing
for your dry hair.

ApHogee Hair Products

 Here are some of the best products for Black Girl's Hair: 

Cream of Nature Hair Products
This leave-in cream conditioner works much better than mousse.
You can apply it before blowdrying your hair, or you can use it for a natural curly look. Simply was you hair, dry with a paper towel, while your hair still wet, apply this cream small section at the time and air dry or use a head dryer or an infusion dryer to dry it.    

                                                           7   -ApHogee has one of "The"best protein and hair repair product for damaged and hair breakage for black girl's hair. I love their products, I even use them sometimes.


Silicone Mix
Silicone Mix +  Semi Di Lino Essential Oil = "The" most silky smooth hair you've ever seen. Seriously it's a must try! They use it in the Brazilian Saloons and charge an arm and a leg for it. All you need to do is mix it to the Silicone Mix and apply it on the shampooed hair and cover with aplastic cap and sit under the head dryer or heating cap for 15mim and than rinse and style. If you don't have neither head dryer or heating cap, just let it sit for 30mim than rinse dry and style. It's inexpensive and will last you a long time.

Semi Di Lino
Essential Oil

Aveda Summer Top Rated Products
Their leave in conditioner is really good
Or you can use Aloe Vera, cut the Aloe Vera leaf boil it let it cool wash your hair with it or use it as a leave-in conditioner. It's healthy, inexpensive and makes your hair shinny and smoother than any product you can buy. Try it, it works!








 8    - All these products:
All these line of products I listed are really good, I recommend them all, but if you don't have the money, try, egg yolk, grape seed oil, olive oil or jojoba oil straight from the bottle. Just warm it up and apply to your hair (dry) and leave it for about 15-20 min than shampoo and apply a small
amount of a conditioner massage, rinse and dry.


9   - This is an Diffuser Dryer

All you need to do is attach it to a blowdryer and dry your curls

 If you dry your curly hair with this Diffuser there's a

             less chance of your hair swelling or go frizzy on you, even on those hot summer days.  

That's what I do to my hair. I've noticed that if I let my hair to air dry, it swells up with the summer heat. But when I dry it with a Diffuser or under a head dryer for about 15min before I leave the house it locks in the curls and the shine and it looks beautiful all day long. It does not swell at all. 

                                      

10   - The only comb you should be using + your fingers

You should never use bristle brush or small teeth comb on your hair. This is the comb you should be using.

                                                                                                                                       

11   - All you need to do:
*-get a trim at least every six months
*-always use sulfate-free shampoo
*-always use a wide tooth comb
*-use a ponytail holder without metal clip
*-loosen your hair and use a silk cap on your hair while sleeping to avoid breakage
*-do a protein conditioning treatment once a week with any of these products listed above
*-if your hair is dry, Co-wash it sometimes, means wash your hair with conditioner instead shampoo
*-get organic products with natural oils such as: almond, coconut oil and jojoba oils
*-use a serum/spray (heat protective spray) before using any heat on your hair
*-Try stretching your relaxer for up to 8 weeks, it'll give you fullness and you'll avoid overlapping relaxer to your older one (causing over process)
*-all you need is a well-layered haircut that's not too heavy at the bottom. That'll do the trick!

12   -Don'ts:
 *avoid washing your hair more than once or twice a week,
*don't twist or rub hair with a towel it can break your weak ends,  dab it dry
* avoid mineral oils and petri oil, they dry your hair
* avoid products with petroleum, it makes your hair stiff, dry and greasy
*try natural oils such as:coconut, jojoba, olive and castor
* avoid using small combs and bristle brushes they break your hair
* avoid using grease on your hair, it only coats your hair making it uneasy to manage
* if you treat it once a week, you wont have the need to grease your hair


"I will not let You go unless You bless me!" Genesis 32:26