How to Dress Stylish and Respectfully

God respects men.

Men neither respects God, nor respects men.

God created respect when he gave us the freedom of choice. 

Respect is the Symphony of life.

Without respect there's no harmony.

Respect has no color, no gender and no financial status.

Respect can neither be bought, nor demanded; it is earned!

 What's the difference between been respectable and been respectful?

People with character are automatically respectable and respectful.

Respectable people do not demand respect from anyone, they give it, that's why they're respectful.

I love this quote from Albert Einstein.This is what respect is all about. We should respect people as a person, not for what they have or do.

“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”

― Albert Einstein

"Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body".

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

Respect:

 Self-Respect is not Self-esteem. 

Self-Respect and self-esteem are two different things. 

When you have Self-Respect you automatically have self-confidence.

 Low- self-esteem will not be an issue. Because you learn to value who you are as a person. 

Self-esteem is based on what you think of your self. When you focus on what you don't have, or don't know, and what others think of you, than you'll develop low self-esteem . Self-Respect is based on what you do, to represent who you are. It's a character of self-value one possesses within, that No One can take it away from you. No-matter the amount of material things you have, the color of your skin, the shape of your body or the length of your hair. You don't have to be gorgeous, or be a size zero, or even have lots of money or fashionable clothes to have Self-Respect. It's a Self-principal that allows you to value who you are.When you self-value, you'll be very careful with the type of men you select to be part of your life, and  those you want to be friends with, so they'll have no other choice but to value you as well. 

You must remember that when you walk like this on the streets:

#1- you're risking your life, because there are many perverts out-here

#2- you're degrading your self, to nothing more than a piece of meat

#3- You're characterizing your self as an easy come and get me girl

#4-your're disrespecting the public as well, because not everyone are 

interested in seeing your bun-bun or your cleavage. 

  

What respect will you get by portraying yourself as an easy to get? How do you expect any men to respect you when you yourself don't respect you?

 What respect do you expect to get when you posting your whole body out on the menu of the world for every eyes to see for free.

Why half of the women in the world think everyone is interesting in seeing their assets in public? Well, not every men are interested, and its an offense to woman.

No, we are not interested, ok?

Besides I think any man that would like to feast their eyes on any woman walking down the streets half naked like this would be just for the fun of it.
You'll never be the one he will take home to meet his mom or to the altar.
You'll never be his Moon or his Star ~ you'll just be a piece of meat, for that's how you portraying your self to him. sorry ☹

  

How disrespectful is this to all the other eyes that are not interested.

How about the eyes of those innocent children that don't really need to see this?

"Likewise also that women should adorn themselves  in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control... 1Timothy 2:9 

To love yourself is to protect and respect your body.
What kind of decent man would like their woman dressed like this in public?

When you Respect your self, others will be compelled to respect you.

How do you expect anyone to respect you, when you yourself don't respect yourself.

Everyone loves free things, but No-one appreciates or values free things.

It's so embarrassing to see the amount of women out there that are either walking half naked with those see through clothing, or wearing clothes two and three sizes smaller then their regular sizes spilling everything out in peoples face.

No matter how much you admire yourself, or how beautiful you think your curves are not everyone are interested in seen them.  I seriously doubt if this is the kind of woman they would like to take to the altar to be their one and only, since they don't even know the difference between, under-ware, beach-wear and outfits. How are they going to know the difference between a look- at me street woman and a respectable woman. 

I love see-through clothing, we just have to make some adjustments. 

There's nothing wrong with see-through clothing, 

you just have to know how to wear them. 

You can wear a white or skin tone camisole under your blouses or a

                                     Seamless mini slip under your see-through dresses

I love the way Tyra Banks is wearing this see-through dress. She looks amazing in it, and is revealing just enough. You go Tyre! 

 

Julia Steeler looks amazing and appropriate in this orange see-through blouse.

These girls look amazing in these see-through blouses.

about $20.00
Why not wear these seamless mini slip under your see-through dresses? 

     They're amazing and inexpensive.

Or these gorgeous little tank tops under your beautiful see-through blouses.
There are so many ways a woman can dress Stylish without compromising her principals, tarnishing her name or simply looking trashy.

A Respectable woman can be Stylish and never outdated not just in her appearance but in her character as well! Don't never forget this!




   

Core Values In Fashion Style & Life

These are the Core Values of life that can not be bought with money.
Is either you have it or you don't!

When you have these values within you, it automatically reflects on your Fashion Style.
You're absolutely sure of your self, your feminism, your taste, and what represents your character and your integrity. You will not compromise it, to please A-B or any passing- by trend. You will never get lost in the crowd, wearing something just because all the other girls are wearing.

Core Values:
Integrity
Respect
Committed
Innovation
Disciplined

These Values are so important that I decided to break them down one-by-one.

"In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching (dressing) show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so those who oppose you may have nothing bad to say about you".Titus 2:7-8

So what does Style/Fashion has to do with Integrity?
Everything!

Integrity:
Self-Integrity is the way of life.
You may have all the money in the world, but if you have no Integrity, you have nothing!  Integrity is to have enough respect for you and others around you, especially those inferior to you. Integrity is to be true to yourself, and knowing that your main concern is to be you. Integrity is to know that God gave you "Freewill" to be You; you don't have to  copy anyone else. If he wanted you to be someone else, He would-off made you someone else, right?

Integrity is not to run away from your thoughts and your feelings, and your weaknesses, but to work at it and better yourself to the level you think you should be.
Running from yourself, is living in a denial. Self-Integrity is to accept your flaws, the-good, the-bad and the-ugly, and work on them. Don't run from them. The easiest thing in life is to live for others, do what others say or do. The hardest thing in life is to live for yourself, to please you first, to think for yourself.

When we have Integrity, we are compelled to maintain our image.
Our ultimate goal is to protect our best Asset in life which is Self-Integrity.
We don't depend on clothes to make us look good ~ we make clothes look good!
We don't have to wear clothes two or three size smaller than we are to show-off our curves. We know who we are and what we like, we don't have to compromise with the marketing trends or media out there. We don't have to settle for what others tells us what we should be wearing. We know what we like and what look good on us and represent us. Not them!



Now how chic and sophisticated does these women look? Simply gorgeous!
They're completely covered up and still look amazing. 
Self-Integrity is to do what's right, not what everyone else is doing. It's hard, but it pays off in the end.   

You'll gain a good name with men/women and God!   

When a woman has Self-Integrity, she doesn't have to say much, her Personal-Style speaks for her.  

Do you really have to walk around half-naked or squeezing your blood circulation, to be beautiful?                                             I don't think so!

Integrity is telling yourself the truth when you look in the mirror.

Integrity is been able to look in the mirror and say:
'mirror, mirror don't lie to me' :-)))*

When a woman has no Self-Integrity, she's hallow, she has no principles or self-value, she's insecure of herself, so she tries to promote her outer-beauty to cover-up her insecurity and emptiness within. 

So ladies, before you put on that ~ Outfit ~ think twice and talk to yourself, by asking this question, is it worthy? 

To have Self-Integrity is to be honest to yourself, tell yourself the truth even when it hurts.

It's pretty but its too tight, too short or too revealing! 

Do you really have to be as naked and as seductive as Jessica Rabbit to feel beautiful?

"A good reputation is better than much wealth; high esteem over silver or gold".

Proverbs 21:1 

  

Investment Pieces For Every Women's Wardrobe

Do You Want A Timeless Blazer/Coat?
These coats are "The" best investment pieces for every women's closet.
If there's one thing you should have in your closet ~ it should be a Military Style coat/blazer. The #1 must have for every men and women!

With these gorgeous Blazers/Coats you can go from day- to -night in a blink of an eye.
They're are so rich in appearance, that you don't need much effort to pull it off.
You don't need any jewelry, those gorgeous buttons and all those details are the jewelry.
They look great with anything, from your favorite jeans to your fancy anything.
I just love them!
I love clothes that are beautiful on its owe.
Clothes with lots of details, that can go from day-to-night and casual to dressy.
Now is this an investment or what?
 
Blazers and Coats are an essential piece in anyone's wardrobe.
Really nice Blazers and Coats can be pretty expensive. As some people may say, a really nice one can be the price of an used car. But not if you know how to shop.

Ralph Lauren Classic Logo Crest Black Blazer

When you buy your Blazer/Coat, buy a dark color such as these: black, navy, army green, grey etc. These colors are Timeless, and they match any outfit. If you take good care of it, you'll have a Timeless blazer/coat for years to come. It's expensive, but it's a well worth investment to your wardrobe that you wont have to spend any more money on it. It's a one-stop-shop to your closet. It's the best look great, mix and match Style to any outfit.

"Blessed is the man you discipline, O lord, the man you teach from your law; you grant him relief from days of trouble". 
Psalm 94:12

The Real Timeless Fashion ~ Our Faith In God

Who said being Old Fashioned is bad ! Seriously who?

“When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flame will not consume you”. Isaiah 43:2

Is Jesus Great, or what?

Who said been Old Fashioned is wrong? When it comes to my faith in God, the more Primitive I get the  better I feel. Faith is a Timeless Fashion. The more you can hold on to it, the more Stylish you feel in your mind and soul. And consequently it will transmit itself to your physical body into your very own personal - Style, with no worries of who said or think what?

So yes, I do want to be an Old Fashioned Unashamed Fellowship of my Jesus.       
Thank you Unknown Author

The Fellowship of the Unashamed -Author Unknown
“I am part of the Fellowship of the Unashamed.  The dye has been cast out.  I have stepped over the line.  The decision has been made.  I am a disciple of Jesus Christ.  I won’t look back, let up, slow down, or be still. My past is redeemed.  My present makes sense.  My future is secure.  I am finished and done with low living, small planning, smooth knees,

colorless dreams, tamed visions, worldly talking, cheap giving, and dwarfed goals.

         I no longer need pre-eminence, positions, promotions, or popularity.  I don’t have to be right, first, recognized, praised, regarded, or rewarded.  Prayer, and labor with power lift me now live by faith, lean on His presence, walk with patience, up.  My face is set, my gait is fast, and my goal is heaven.

         My road is narrow, my way is rough, my companions are few, my guide is reliable, my mission is clear.  I cannot be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away, divided, or delayed.  I will not flinch in the face of sacrifice, hesitate in the presence of the adversary, negotiate at the table of the enemy, ponder at the pool of popularity, or meander in the maze of mediocrity.  I won’t give up, shut up, or let up until I have stayed up, stored up and paid up for the cause of Christ.

 I must go till He comes, give till I drop, preach till all know, and work till He stops me and when He returns for His own, He will have no problem recognizing me, my banner will be clear!!”

Fur is The Final Touch On Any Fall/Winter Outfit

Whether its a Real or Faux Fur, its Fun and beautiful.
It gives a sense of nature, and romanticism to any Outfit.
I know many people gets offended with the uses of Furs; although I respect them,
but I don't. I love animals and I love anything with Furs.

I wish I could have a Lion or a Polar Bear as a pet; just so I could cuttle-up and play with their mane and fur all day long. :-))) Seriously, I wish I could have all the big Cats as my pet. Well, since that's not gonna happen, so I settle for anything with Furs. 

I believe God made animals to serve us, as food, as clothes and entertainment.
Just like he did with Adam and Eve, and John the Baptist.

"The Lord God made clothes from animal skins for the man and his wife and dressed them". Gen. 3:21

"John's clothes were made of hair, and he had a leather belt around his waist". 
Matthew 3:4 
For me winter is not winter if I don't have some Furs!!!
Its warm, chic, and it looks great with anything.

Talking about chic?
Is this a chic look or what?

Your skirt don't have to be so short in order for you to feel or look pretty!
But if its short like this one, you can wear it with a black opaque stockings.

You can wear your knee high pencil skirts, plead skirts and your shorts with these awesome fur-attached socks. How cute are these! The fur overlaps over your boots.






It can be worn with boots or closed high heels just like this one, with your pencil skirt.

How cute are these?

These Fur Ankle Socks

                                       can turn any boring boots into a thing of beauty

You can find these Fur socks
on sale at this site for only $7.99
http://www.evanity.com/index.php/fur-ankle-socks.html

Talking About A Confusion Trend ?

What in the world is this?

I would not wear this for Free!!!

Fashion should be fun not a confusion! 

There's fashion and there's a confusion mess.

How in the world can anyone wear this? 

I'm sorry people, but think some one was pretty bored when they invented this mess.

 

Jeans sandal boots, handmade.

                         

$140.00

I'm pretty handy when it comes to Styling! But this sandal boots has left me in puzzle.

Can someone please let me know can this be Styled?

What season can one Style it?

How can you wear this in the winter, with your toes picking out in the snow?

Or in the summer when you really want some fresh air and some tan on your feet?

 

I could understand if it was a close boots.

It could be worn with your skinny jeans or your tights.

But an open toe boots? Seriously? 

is this a Fashion, a trend or just a messy mess!  

This is 'The' ugliest pair of shoes I've ever seen! 

I'm sorry, but if you have a $140.00 to throw away or pay your way to a  

ridiculously ~ ridiculous look,  then buy this shoes.  

"I do not claim that I have already succeeded or have already become perfect. I keep striving to win the prize for which Christ Jesus has already won me to himself". Philippians 2:12 

A Definitely "Fall's" Must Have Investment

 One of The Fall's best looks without a doubt!!!.....

I want to show you some of the best, not just Fall's but all year around investment for your closet.
When you buy clothe, you should never go for the cheapest things in the store.
Wait for the Sale or save up. But invest your money on a good quality clothes and the classic ones that never goes out of Style.


Jean Jacket with Furs
 This Jean Jacket is one of the best investment a woman can make to her closet.
Seriously!
It's amazingly beautiful and it can be worn all year around.
The Faux -Fur-Trim attachment on the collar can be removed, so you can wear it in the Summer, or just in case you don't like furs. 




☜- This is me with my Faux-Fur-Trim Jacket and my dark-blue jeans and my pretty Fur-Boots.

Is there any Fall's casual look more pretty then this one?

Whenever you buy some Jeans if you can't afford to buy tons of them start with one or two good quality straight legs, Dark-Blue ones.

The Dark-Blue ones have a richer classy appearance.
You can dress them up with a silk blouse, a vest, a blazer, some pretty heels or even a T-shirt and sandals and they look amazing.

They are a great investment.  




It'll look great with:
❀- your favorite  blue Jeans, colorful ones too and your khakis

❀- your plaid wool, Jeans and khaki skirts with ankle boots and decorative long socks or knee high boots (and sandals in the summer)

❀- your knee length wool and Jeans shorts 

❀-and your winter dresses with knee high boots 




Did you notice I said winter skirts, shorts and winter dresses?
❀- Not Summer ones yealll..... they look cheap and careless in winter!
 Seriously!

Best investment ever! 

You can wear it with basically anything.  

But make sure to buy a good quality one.

Ralph Lauren Faux-Trim- Fur 

Skirts

 skirts look amazing all year around with your sandals or your knee high Boots.

It looks great with tights or those pretty decorative wool or cotton socks. 

Capris

These Jeans and Khaki capris are Definitely  an all year around investment in your closet. It looks great all year around wether you're wearing it with a sandal, heels or boots. It's a must have!   "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved - you and your household" Acts 16:31

The Hottest Slimming Jeans For Every Shape

The best  skinny Jeans substitute.

 If you think skinny Jeans are too revealing, then you need to try these Jeans by Ralph Lauren. It has a great fit, because its 98% cotton and 2% spandex just enough for that comfortable fit. It fits like a skinny Jeans but it has an appropriate decent look. Its nice and fitted from the waist to the knee, from the knee down it flares just enough to balance your thigh. Its great to wear with a sandal, shoes and boots as well. Its really a one and all Jeans fit. Trust me you will love it. I'm extremely picky with my Jeans and I absolutely love it. 

And the colors are awesome. I love this Green one.  

One of the best fitting Jeans out-there for every shape. 
The skinny jeans look and comfort ~ and leaving enough room for the imagination.

Lauren Jeans

Slimming Modern Straight Leg
There are more colors but these are my favorites.

black

washed green

I Absolutely Love these Jeans!

This wash green is amazing!

You must give give them a try, you'll love them as well.

They look and fit great.

"So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you." Romans 12 1-2